The Courage and Being a Nobody: Writing, Creating, and Stepping Into the Unknown

Be a nobody—where freedom reigns and courage thrives.

Have you ever felt the pull to step into something new—something that feels vulnerable yet exciting at the same time? I have been on this journey for some time now, and I want to encourage anyone who is writing a book, pursuing a dream, or stepping into unfamiliar territory. When what you are doing stems from vulnerability but breeds excitement, fervor, and a deep sense of peace, you know you are stepping into something meaningful. Taking that first step, despite the uncertainty, is an act of courage and faith. Your story matters, and the process of sharing it can transform not only your life but the lives of others.

Pure joy comes when my mindset is aligned with God, letting His wisdom and peace filter my thoughts and actions. When you feel called to write, the journey becomes more than just putting words on a page—it becomes an act of obedience and trust. For many of us, the desire to write a book stems from a longing to share what we have learned through life’s experiences. If even one person’s life is touched and made better—spiritually, personally, or professionally—then every moment of effort will have been worth it.

The Problem of Credibility

One of the first challenges is credibility—or lack thereof. In my case of writing a book is when you are not a household name or a recognized thought leader, you might wonder if anyone will care about what you have to say. But the truth is, your experiences and insights are unique. Even if you are not famous, your story has the potential to reach someone in a way no one else could.

There is true power in storytelling and testimonies. 

Credibility is not just about how others see you—it starts with believing in yourself. The value as a writer does not come from public recognition; it comes from the authenticity of your message. If you feel called to write or step into the unknown, that alone is reason enough to start.

Finding the Time and Motivation

Without a publisher’s deadline or an agent’s pressure, the motivation to keep going has to come entirely from within. That means finding time in the middle of work, family, and the general chaos of life. Writing a book as a "nobody" often means writing in stolen moments—early mornings, late nights, or lunch breaks.

And even when you do sit down to write, self-doubt can creep in. But every time you choose to keep going, you are strengthening your resolve and sharpening your message. The process itself becomes part of the story you are telling—a story of perseverance and faith.

The Noise of the Market

Even if you manage to push through the writing or that moment of stepping out of your comfort zone, the challenge does not stop there. In my case, it continues when you have a draft, you face the daunting task of trying to break through the noise. The thought and knowing that the publishing world is saturated with content—traditional publishers are inundated with manuscripts, and self-publishing platforms release thousands of new titles every day.

[Deep Breath] -thinking of Martin Laurence when he would rub his earlobes and say "Whoosah" - movie, Bad Boys 2, 2003

But the beauty of writing from a place of authenticity is that your work does not need to reach everyone—it just needs to reach the right someone. Your message is not for everyone, and that is okay. Focus on connecting with the person who needs to hear what you have to say.

The Emotional Weight

Writing is deeply personal, even when it is not about you. Pouring your thoughts and experiences into a book means exposing yourself to judgment and rejection—as I am doing right now. But vulnerability is not weakness—it is courage. Sharing your truth, even when it feels risky, can be the very thing that creates a connection with your reader.

Fear of failure is natural, but it does not have to define the experience. Everyone faces rejection at some point, but those who make an impact are the ones who keep going. Your voice matters, even when it feels like no one is listening.

Why It is Still Worth It

At the heart of it all, I have to remind myself why I started writing this book in the first place. It was not about recognition or success—it was about sharing knowledge and experiences. If it reaches just one person and helps them grow spiritually, personally, or professionally, then it was worth it. All the early mornings, late nights, and lunch breaks have been fueled by a quiet dependence on God. Nothing feels daunting when the innocent action is rooted in the Spirit of God.

“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” – Proverbs 16:3

But this message is not just about writing a book—it is about stepping into any new and uncertain territory. Maybe you are starting a new business, navigating a career shift, or stepping into leadership for the first time. Perhaps you are pursuing a dream that feels too big or mending a relationship that feels too broken. The fear and vulnerability that come with stepping out are real, but so is the reward of growth and fulfillment.

The courage to keep going—despite the setbacks, the doubts, and the unknown—is where transformation happens. Every meaningful journey requires sacrifice, faith, and trust in the process. And even when the path feels unclear, you are not walking it alone.

So, whether you are writing, leading, creating, or building—remember that your effort matters. Your story matters. Keep showing up, keep trusting, and keep believing that the work you are doing has purpose.